As I work through this week’s module in my journey to becoming a Certified Youth Life Coach and Certified Positive Parenting Coach, one concept really stood out to me: the idea that challenges can be opportunities. It made me pause and reflect—how often do I, as an adult, approach challenges with curiosity and openness instead of dread? Do I look at them as chances to grow, or do I brace myself thinking, “This is going to be hard”?
The truth is, we rarely see the lessons in a challenge until we’ve moved through it, sometimes not even until years later. I think that’s part of why I feel so strongly called to this work. As a teenager, I faced tough challenges daily. And no, I didn’t face them with a great attitude, and it almost cost me my life. But looking back now, I can finally see the value in those experiences. I can see how they shaped me, and how I can use what I’ve learned not only to improve my own life but to help others, too.
Honestly, if I thought being a teen was hard 20 years ago, I can’t imagine what kids are navigating today. The pressure, the exposure, social media, the expectations—everything seems magnified. That perspective fuels my passion even more.
Even now, I face challenges. . . . .like this blog, for example. I notice there are no subscribers yet, no comments, and few views. It’s easy to slip into negative thinking: “Why bother? Who’s even reading this?” But that’s exactly the mindset I want to help my clients shift. We all start somewhere. This is part of my journey, and I want to be real about it.
If you read my first blog post, you’ll know how much I believe in authenticity and transparency. Leaning into those values has helped me build a better relationship with myself, and I want the same for others. Growth comes from being honest—first with ourselves, and then with the world. And in my humble opinion, growth can equal success!
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